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What is considered oral sex?

Any contact of the mouth, lips and tongue to stimulate vagina(cunnilingus), penis(fellatio), anus(anilingus) of sexual partner is considered an oral sex. As well as the oral stimulation of the broader skin area around the vagina, penis, and rectum, so called peri genital and perianal areas.

Oral sex vs vaginal or anal sex. Is it safer?

Oral sex is considered safer (in terms of chance of transmission) than genital sex but is it the true? Where is the misconception coming from? Let's look together at what is known!

1.  People that have oral sex have genital sex at the same time and it is difficult to differentiate how the person get the STD.

2.  Not a lot of studies done to look for the chance of getting and passing different STDs orally

3.  Most likely the main misconception comes from studies showing a lower chance of getting HIV by giving and getting oral sex on the penis. But what is true for HIV might not be true for other conditions.

4.  Some STDs such as chlamydia and gonorrhea if contracted stays at the point of contact. It means the testing of one area (vagina or penis) is not excluding the presence of bacteria in another area (mouth or rectum). Mouth swabs are not as commonly done, especially on heterosexual people.

5.  Oral STDs not as symptomatic and can be missed for a long time.

Contracting chlamydia-and transmitting it to
others-through oral sex

You need to understand several things about chlamydia to determine how likely it is that you will get chlamydia from oral sex:

  • How chlamydia is passed from one person to another
  • After contracting chlamydia, when will a person become infectious
  • Who is at higher risk for chlamydia (so you will know that you're at higher risk of contracting chlamydia if you have oral sex with them)
  • How giving versus receiving oral sex affects your risk

Let discuss each portion in more details!

How chlamydia is passed by an infected person, and why certain body parts are more likely to be infected

Chlamydia is transmitted sexually, via bodily fluids. It can be passed through vaginal, penile, and anal contact, and it can be passed through oral sex as well though that's less risky. It can also be transmitted using sex toys.

Conditions necessary for transmission

For transmission to occur, chlamydia-containing bodily fluid must make contact with a type of tissue that is in the cervix, urethra, rectum, and eyes.

Why chlamydia infection is more common in certain body parts

People are more likely to get chlamydia in the rectum, cervix, or urethra than in the mouth. This may be because of differences in immune response in the local area, microscopic tears in the vaginal, penile, or anal area caused by friction during sex, and/or differences in the tissues that line these organs (some of which are more likely to contain chlamydia than others).

When a person infected with chlamydia is contagious

  • Chlamydia can be transmitted by an infected person immediately after they become infected.
  • Chlamydia infection can be passed regardless of whether the infected person has symptoms.
  • The infected person will continue to be contagious until seven days after they finish treatment (when they'll be cured)-it doesn't matter whether they have any signs or symptoms of the disease.

When a person infected with chlamydia is contagious

Who is at higher risk of having chlamydia infection in general? It is important to know the general statistics on chlamydia prevalence based on age, gender, sexual orientation, and region (where the live) to know the likelihood of getting it. The higher the chance of having chlamydia in general the higher the chance of passing and getting it orally.
This list tells us the highest chance of chlamydia in different categories of people:

  • Young people (15-24 years of age) have highest prevalence of chlamydia compare to other age groups
  • Females has a higher chance of having chlamydia than male; 1.75 times higher chance than in male
  • MSM- male having sex with male-have highest prevalence based on sexual orientation
  • People with multiple partners
  • Practicing unsafe sex increase the chances getting chlamydia
  • Highest rate among ethnic minorities with highest among African American
  • Highest chance of chlamydia in the South (Louisiana, Mississippi, South Carolina, and New Mexico)

Chance of having chlamydia orally for heterosexual male and female

The chance of being diagnosed with oral chlamydia during routine STD screening for heterosexual people:

  • 1.6% of heterosexual men
  • 1.7% of heterosexual female

Chance of having chlamydia orally for homosexual male

The chance of getting diagnosed with oral chlamydia for homosexual male during the routine STD screening is 2.3%

Chance of having chlamydia orally when you are positive genitally

Here we are mentioning the chance of people having oral chlamydia while being positive for it genitally.

  • 2% for heterosexual male
  • 7% for heterosexual female

This is the percentage of people that have chlamydia in both places and spreading it both ways. It is important of mentioning that chlamydia, when contracted, stays at the point of contact and testing of one area without testing the other area not helpful with ruling out chlamydia. All point of contacts (oral, rectal, genital) needs to be tested.

The reason oral chlamydia testing is not routinely performed on everybody because the chance of having it orally without having it anywhere else (rectally and genitally) only 0.8%.

What is the chance of getting and passing chlamydia via mouth to penis sex?

The likelihood of getting and passing infection via mouth-to-penis oral sex with one time contact differ significantly depending on the part infected at the time of the contact: mouth or penis

  • The chance of getting oral chlamydia after contacting with infected penis is from 2.6% to 3.7%
  • The chance of passing chlamydia from infected throat to penis is from 5.6%-15.6%.

What is the chance of getting and passing chlamydia via mouth-to-vagina sex?

The likelihood of getting and passing infection via mouth-to-vagina oral sex with one time contact differ significantly depending on the parts that is infected at the time of the contact: mouth or vagina

  • The chance of getting oral chlamydia after contact with infected vagina is from 0% to 5%.
  • The chance of passing chlamydia from infected throat to vagina can be as high as 40%

Chance of getting and passing chlamydia via mouth-to-rectum sex

The likelihood of getting and passing infection via mouth-to-rectum oral sex with one time contact differ significantly depending on the part infected at the time of the contact: mouth or rectum

  • The chance of getting oral chlamydia after contacting with infected anus is from 2.6% to 3.6%
  • The chance of passing chlamydia from infected throat to the rectum is from 13.1% to 32.5%

Getting and passing gonorrhea via oral sex

If you wish to understand how likely it is that you'll contract gonorrhea through oral sex, you need to know a few things:

  • How gonorrhea infection is passed
  • What groups of people are more likely to have gonorrhea (so you'll understand when you are at higher risk of contracting gonorrhea)
  • When is transmission of the infection more likely
  • How the type of oral sex (receiving it or giving it) affects risk

Let's discuss each of these!

How gonorrhea is passed from person to person

One thing that's very important to know: sexual intercourse (with penetration) is not required for gonorrhea to be transmitted. Contact with semen, vaginal fluid, or saliva that contains gonorrhea bacteria is all that's necessary.

Gonorrhea is the gram-negative bacteria that live mainly on the mucosal columnar epithelial of the affected organ both inside and outside of cells (fluids). Transmission happens during sexual contact. Upon arrival to a new host, gonorrhea forms small colonies at the area of the contact and starts invading the mucosal cells. This generally takes one or two hours after contraction of the infection.

Facts about the contagiousness of gonorrhea

  • Someone whose mouth is exposed often to fluids from the vagina or penis is more likely to contract gonorrhea. This is even more true if the fluids are swallowed.
  • Someone who has more than five sexual partners in their lifetime is more likely to get gonorrhea. Clearly, the number of different partners matters.
  • Gonorrhea can be transmitted immediately-as soon as a person becomes infected with it.
  • It doesn't matter if the infected person has symptoms of gonorrhea-they're still contagious.
  • An infected person can transmit the infection as long as they have it; i.e., until they're cured, which is seven days after they finish treatment. Again, it doesn't matter if they have signs or symptoms of the infection.

The groups of people more likely to have gonorrhea

If you know the groups of people who are more likely to have gonorrhea, you'll know whether you're at higher risk of contracting it. Obviously, if you have oral sex (or other types of sex) with someone in these groups, you're at greater risk.

  • People who are addicted to drugs
  • People who have multiple sex partners
  • People who don't use condoms
  • Homosexuals and other males who have sex with males
  • Members of ethnic minorities; rates are highest among African Americans, Hispanics, and Native Americans

Chance of a heterosexual being found to have gonorrhea in a routine screen

The likelihood of a heterosexual male being diagnosed with oral gonorrhea during a routine STD screening is 3%-7%. For heterosexual females, it's 2%-10%.

Chance of a homosexual male being found to have gonorrhea in a routine screen

The likelihood of a homosexual male being diagnosed with oral gonorrhea during a routine STD screening is up to 5.5%.

Oral or throat gonorrhea infection is the possible source of genital gonorrhea infection

One study has shown that if a person only receives oral penile sex (from male or female) without having any other sex types (genital or rectal), the chance of being diagnosed with oral gonorrhea during a routine screening is from 3.1 % (female giving oral penile sex) to 4.1% (male giving oral penile sex). This data allows us to suggest that oral gonorrhea infection may serve as a reservoir and source of urethral infection and that oral sex may be contributing to the ongoing transmission of gonorrhea. Moreover. It is more difficult to treat and eradicate oral gonorrhea infection than genital infection.

Throat-to-penis transmission is much likelier than the opposite

According to a study of homosexual males in Melbourne, Australia, it's much more likely for a throat that's infected with gonorrhea to transmit gonorrhea to the penis of another person than the other way around. For a one-time contact, here are the statistics:

  • Chance of transmission from throat to penis: 23% to 42.3%
  • Chance of transmission from penis to oral area: 2.3%

Throat-to-vagina transmission is much likelier than the opposite

Similarly, it's much more likely for a throat that's infected with gonorrhea to transmit gonorrhea to the vagina of another person than the other way around. For a one-time contact, here are the statistics:

  • Chance of transmission from vagina to throat: 0% to 5%.
  • Chance of transmission from throat to vagina: as high as 40%

Throat-to-rectum is much likelier than the opposite

And it's much more likely for a throat that's infected with gonorrhea to transmit gonorrhea to the rectum of another person than the other way around. For a one-time contact, here are the statistics:

  • Chance of transmission from anus to throat: 3.8%
  • Chance of transmission from throat to rectum: 42.3%

Chance of getting and passing gonorrhea via mouth-to-mouth (deep kissing)

The chance of getting oral gonorrhea after contacting with infected throat (deep kissing) is 23.2%

Getting and passing HIV via oral sex

To understand your individual chance of getting HIV infection via oral sex you need to understand:

  • How HIV transmission happens
  • Which group of people at higher risk (and if you came in to contact with that type of person the chance is higher)
  • What make transmission easier to occur
  • Type of oral sex: receiving or giving

Let discuss each portion in more details!

How does HIV transmission happen?

It is very important to understand how HIV transmission happens. It helps to understand what the necessary factors are and how soon you become infectious to other people.

The bodily fluid (semen, pre cum, blood, vaginal fluid, and rectal fluid) of an HIV-positive person must come into contact with the mucosa (found in the mouth, vagina, rectum, and penis) or damaged tissue (cut or abrasion) for the transmission to occur.

The groups of people at greatest risk of getting HIV

The following are the groups of people at higher risk of contracting HIV:

  • People having sex with multiple partners
  • People who have unprotected sex
  • Homosexual males
  • People who have anal sex
  • People with other STDs (especially STDs that cause a sore or discharge-the chance of HIV being transmitted through a damaged body part is 6 to 10 times higher)

Factors that make passing HIV more likely

  • Timing-an HIV-positive person who has recently been diagnosed and who has symptoms is more likely to transmit HIV
  • The viral load of the HIV-positive person (the greater the amount of virus in a person with HIV, the more infectious they are)
  • The susceptibility of the uninfected person (genital sores, vaginal discharge, genital irritation, and warts make contracting HIV more likely)

Facts about the risk of transmitting HIV when giving or receiving oral sex

Getting HIV through oral sex is very unlikely. The chance is close to zero, whether you're giving or receiving oral sex. This is because mouth tissues rarely develop microscopic abrasions during sex, even if blood or sperm enters the mouth. However, it is difficult to scientifically determine the risk of oral sex alone because people having oral sex usually also have other types of sex (vaginal or anal) during the same sexual episode.


Factors that make transmission of oral HIV likelier

Someone with sores in their mouth or bleeding gums is at greater risk of contracting HIV when their mouth is exposed to vaginal fluids or ejaculate.


Giving oral sex is a bit riskier

The risk of getting oral HIV is slightly higher if you are giving oral sex (your mouth is on your partner's genitals) than if you are receiving it (your partner's mouth is on your genitals). The reason for this is that you may have microscopic abrasions in your mouth that you're not aware of and your mouth and throat can come into contact with infected bodily fluids.


Mouth-to-penis vs. mouth-to-vagina vs. mouth-to-anus

Oral sex that involves the mouth and penis is slightly riskier than oral sex that involves the mouth and vagina. Oral sex that involves the mouth and anus is very unlikely to result in HIV (but it may cause a bacterial infection).

Risk of passing HIV in a one-time episode of unprotected oral sex

The risk of getting HIV through oral sex alone, whether giving or receiving it, is believed to be very low. However, no reliable studies exist because people having oral sex are likely to be having other types of sex during the same sexual encounters.

Giving oral sex is thought to be riskier than receiving it, and oral sex involving the mouth and penis is thought to be riskier than oral sex involving the mouth and vagina.

Facts about the risk of contracting HIV infection through giving oral sex

Here we will discuss the chance of getting HIV through giving oral sex to an HIV-positive person.


Giving oral sex with mouth-to-penis contact (giving a blow job) to an HIV-positive person

The likelihood of getting HIV through giving a single blow job to an HIV-positive person is no more than 1 in 2,500 acts (0%-0.04%).


Giving oral sex to an HIV-positive person with mouth-to-vagina contact (cunnilingus)

There is no likelihood of getting HIV by engaging in cunnilingus, as no cases of this occurring have been documented and reported in reliable sources.


Giving oral sex to an HIV-positive person with mouth-to-anus contact (anilingus or rimming)

There is very little likelihood of getting HIV by engaging in oral sex involving contact of the mouth and anus; the chance is negligible. In fact, the lifetime risk of transmitting HIV this way is less than 1%.

Facts about the risk of contracting HIV infection through receiving oral sex

Here we will discuss the chance of getting HIV through receiving oral sex from an HIV-positive person.


Receiving oral sex with mouth-to-penis contact (receiving a blow job)

The likelihood of getting HIV from being given a blow job is very low. HIV transmission this way is unlikely because enzymes in saliva neutralize many viral particles, even if the saliva contains blood.


Receiving oral sex with mouth-to-vagina contact

There is no likelihood of getting HIV when an infected person's mouth comes in contact with your vagina, as no cases of this occurring have been documented and reported in reliable sources.


Receiving oral sex with mouth-to-anus contact

The risk of contracting HIV through one act of an HIV-positive person's mouth coming in contact with your anus is negligible.

Getting and passing Herpes via oral sex.

To understand your individual chance of getting HIV infection via oral sex you need to understand:

  • How Herpes transmission happens
  • Chance of herpes transmission with symptomatic vs asymptomatic partner; protected vs unprotected oral sex
  • HSV 1 vs HSV-2 difference and chance of having it orally

Let discuss each portion in more details!

How herpes is transmitted

Direct skin-to-skin contact is necessary for herpes to be passed. When a herpes blister on the skin of the infected person makes contact with their partner's skin, it can rupture. The fluids in it contain a high concentration of herpes virus. The risk of transmission during the infected person's first outbreak is greater because that is when the virus is most highly concentrated in the blisters.

Transmission of herpes transmission through oral sex: symptomatic vs. asymptomatic and with protection vs. without it

Since herpes transmission is through the direct skin-to-skin contact the oral to genital acquisition as well as genital to oral transmission follow the same general rule for herpes transmission

There are no statistics available on the probability of herpes transmission via oral sex (at least, we couldn't find any).

Transmission of oral herpes when symptomatic versus when not symptomatic

The table below summarizes the risk of oral herpes transmission-over time, with multiple sex acts-when the infected person is symptomatic and when they are not.

These percentages are general estimates. They may vary from person to person based on immune system strength (people with low immunity are more susceptible to infection), skin condition (people with damaged skin are more likely to contract the infection), and race (Black people are more susceptible to herpes infection).

Disease manifestation Chance of transmission

Symptomatic

20.1%

Asymptomatic

10.2%



Transmission of oral herpes with protection versus without protection

The table below summarizes the risk of oral herpes transmission when protection (condoms) is used and when it is not. Unprotected sex is much riskier.

These percentages are general estimates. They may vary from person to person based on immune system strength (people with low immunity are more susceptible to infection), skin condition (people with damaged skin are more likely to contract the infection), and race (Black people are more susceptible to herpes infection).

Chance of transmission
Asymptomatic patients Symptomatic patients
Protected sex 5.15% 10.05%
Unprotected sex 10.2 % 20.1%


Herpes shedding in patients positive for oral (HSV-1) and genital (HSV-2) herpes who have no symptoms

The table below summarizes the risk of shedding in the oral and genital areas.

Shedding of herpes is not accompanied by any symptoms or visible signs. Whether virus has shed is measured by attempting to isolate it on the skin (in saliva or vaginal fluid, for example) when a patient has no symptoms.

These statistics are not related to transmission, but rather to viral shedding. The medical community does not know how much shedding needs to occur for transmission to occur, but most likely, the higher the virus shedding rate, the greater the chance of transmission.

Herpes type Chance of oral shedding (when the herpes location is the oral area) Chance of genital shedding (when the herpes location is the genital area)

HSV-1

37%

11%

HSV-2

6.5%

78%

Facts about how, when, and why herpes is transmitted in the absence of symptoms

Most herpes-positive people want to protect their partners from getting the infection, but this is not always possible. This is because the infected person can pass herpes even when they have no symptoms.

Asymptomatic herpes transmission has been studied, but results to date leave many open questions. Physicians must make many educated assumptions.


How asymptomatic herpes virus shedding occurs

It is believed that silent (asymptomatic) herpes transmission occurs when active herpes virus from a local nerve ganglion migrates to the surface of the skin. Skin-to-skin contact where the virus is active is required for transmission. Still unknown is what concentration of virus on the skin is required for transmission.


When silent transmission occurs

It is believed that factors that cause herpes to flare up, such as stress, exhaustion, and other disease, make silent transmission of herpes likelier, but this hasn't been proven. A strong immune system probably suppresses the virus quickly enough to prevent a visible skin flare-up, though transmission can still occur. This too hasn't been proven.


When silent transmission is likeliest

  • The risk of transmission is highest in the first year after the patient contracts herpes.
  • The period from a few days before an outbreak to a few days after it is when the risk of transmission is greatest.

Facts about the common names for HSV-1 ("oral herpes") and HSV-2 ("genital herpes")

"Oral herpes" and "genital herpes" are not medical terms. Doctors usually don't use them.


The general public uses these terms because the two types of herpes tend to primarily affect one or the other parts of the body.

  • HSV-1 usually affects the oral area.
  • HSV-2 usually (in 58.7% of cases) affects the genital area.

However, both herpes types can affect either the oral area or the genital area. Therefore, physicians refer to them as herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1) and herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). Here are a couple of additional facts:

  • In up to 41.3% of cases caused by oral-to-genital sex, HSV-1 affects the genital area.
  • Less often, HSV-2 can cause oral herpes.

Receiving oral sex from someone with a herpes infection in the throat can cause genital herpes:

  • On the penis
  • In the vagina
  • In the anus

How HSV-1 and HSV-2 are different

HSV-1 and HSV-2 are different in some ways, but they are treated the same and have the same prognosis (predicted outcome).


Body parts affected

Both HSV-1 and HSV-2 can affect either the oral or genital region. Nevertheless, type 1 primarily affects the oral region and type 2 primarily affects the genital region.


Prevalence

Type 2 is much less common than type 1. About 10% to 15% of the world's population has HSV-2; for type 1, that figure is up to 80%.


Rate of transmission

Type 2 is a little more contagious than type 1.


When the virus is acquired

HSV-1 is typically contracted non-sexually during childhood from friends and parents. HSV-2, on the other hand, is typically contracted after age 14, and it is considered a sexually transmitted disease for that reason. However, either virus can be acquired at any age.


Outbreak frequency

Patients with HSV-2 in any anatomic location have outbreaks more often than those with HSV-1. This is most true early in the disease process and does not affect treatment or prognosis. Fortunately, the number of outbreaks decreases over time with both herpes types.

Getting and passing Syphilis via oral sex.

To understand your individual chance of getting and passing Syphilis infection via oral sex you need to understand:

  • How syphilis transmission happens?
  • What factors affect the oral syphilis transmission rate?
  • Chance of contracting syphilis after contacting with symptomatic vs asymptomatic person

Let discuss each portion in more details!

How does Syphilis transmission happen?

The syphilis transmission happens via skin-to-skin contact. Normal skin should come into contact with one of the syphilis lesions depending on the syphilis stage:

  • Chancre (first stage of syphilis)- painless sore that can be on any part of the body
  • Rashes that usually brownish pink, not itchy, that affect any part of the body (but common to have in palms and soles as well as the trunk). Syphilis rashes can take any form or shape and for that reason syphilis is called the "Greatest pretender"

What factors affect the oral syphilis transmission rate?

Same factors that affect the transmission of syphilis in other body parts applied to transmission of syphilis via oral sex:

  • Absence or presence of the syphilis sore or rashes and if those came into contact with partner skin or mucosa. This is the most important factor out of all.
  • Duration of the sexual encounter
  • Frequency of sexual contact with infected person

What is the chance of getting and passing syphilis via oral sex with partner with symptoms?

Oral(both giving and receiving) syphilis transmission rate with symptomatic partner is about the same. Moreover the syphilis transmission rate for different syphilis stages-chancre (first syphilis stage lesion) vs skin rash(secondary syphilis lesions)- is the same as well:

  • 10%-30% per unprotected contact
  • 60% with multiple unprotected contacts with the same person.

What is the chance of getting and passing syphilis via oral sex with partner without symptoms?

Oral (both giving and receiving) syphilis transmission rate with asymptomatic partner is about the same.

  • 15% per unprotected contact
  • 30% with multiple unprotected contacts with the same person.

The risk of contracting oral syphilis through one protected sexual encounter with a syphilis-positive person

The likelihood of contracting syphilis through one sexual encounter (using protection) with a syphilis-positive person is 0%-26.7%. This range is broad because the risk varies based on the sore's location and whether the condom completely covers it.

Degree of protection that condoms give

How much protection a condom provides varies widely depending on where the infected person's syphilis sore is and whether the condom completely covers it. This is because syphilis is transmitted through skin-to-skin contact that includes the sore.

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